Saturday, August 10, 2013

Monogamy is Dying, Polygamy is Rising

Of course God's plan is for one man to be joined to one woman until death do them part.

So of course, Satan is constantly doing all he can to pervert that plan.  If God said it...then Satan wants the opposite.

Witness gay marriage.  We already know that has exploded and simply will NOT be done away with ever again.  The genie is out of the bottle on that one.

So now that the definition of marriage has been permanently changed....why not throw out this whole stupid idea of ONE MAN and ONE WOMAN?  Who says we can't love more than ONE WOMAN or ONE MAN?

And just watch now, as the whole idea of POLYGAMY and POLYAMOROUS go main stream and gather acceptance.  A day is soon coming when a person will be called intolerant and unloving if they dare to disagree with the 'logic' of polygamy.

A wonderful sex and love therapist once told me that there is a spectrum of monogamy to polyamory, from the most fidelity driven two-person couples to the individuals so dedicated to multiple partners that their personal lives ring of debauchery. Then there are those of us who fall somewhere in the middle, dedicated and committed yes, but also driven to love more than one.

In what I’d call the middle, somewhere between newly married lovebirds with eyes only for each other and swingers at an orgy, is the idea of ethical non-monogamy or, polyamory. The idea that the human heart is capable of love and devotion to more than one partner. There is not one soulmate who fulfills you so completely that your emotional, physical and all other relationship needs are met, but that meeting all these needs could take more than one person — and that’s OK. In fact, it’s down right beautiful. The cornerstone of this kind of love is communication. Open, honest, and by all means frequent communication, but first, you need to get there.

I was raised in a nuclear family that consisted of my parents, my sister, myself and God. My father liked to post scripture on the fridge and lecture my sister and I about settling down with a good Christian man who could provide for us.  From my teenage days one of my main interest was chasing boys.  I liked men, I still like men. The look of them, the smell of them, the way their shirts button on the opposite side and when they sit down they always look so damn comfortable. Despite my desire to surround myself with the male of the species, my parents’ tutelage stuck in my head: Find a nice man. Settle down.

SO SHE DID....BUT NOW SHE WANTS TO HAVE MORE!!

Our sex life took a turn for betterment I couldn’t have imagined. Not only did we start to explore more areas of our desires, but finding passion and confidence with other partners brought us closer together so our time spent intimately doubled from what it used to be.  I felt more drawn to my husband, and our relationship is better than it has been in years. Either of us would tell you so.

I am a mother, then a wife, and then a girlfriend. The kids’ needs come before my husband’s and boyfriend’s, and we all are sensitive to how time is spent with them.  I do not give up time with them to spend time with my boyfriend, and my husband and I make sure to spend plenty of time as a family.

Yes, my kids know my boyfriend, adore him actually. This arrangement isn’t confusing for them because they know him as a family friend (he was before we ever dated). The kids are currently kept completely unaware of any other dating that goes on.

If eventually, my husband would like to introduce a partner to our children, it would have to be serious enough (as in dating for awhile) to warrant the children knowing. Perhaps, when they get older they will find out that “uncle Jim” is actually their mother’s partner. And then we plan to explain that love is not bound to two people, and we all may love and live as we choose.


Read more: http://www.mommyish.com/2013/08/01/im-polyamorous-and-my-marriage-is-in-the-best-place-it-has-ever-been/#ixzz2bZte5Zga

Ohhh...won't that just be wonderful for the kids to learn that their mom humps multiple men...because she loves it so?

Can you see how society will soon be in an absolute free fall? 

Can you see how disaster will come when MANKIND starts ignoring God's rules and begins inventing their own?

Can you see how this is all more evidence that we are living in the very last hours of the very LAST DAYS?

Are you getting excited to meet Jesus?  Are you growing more tired of this life on earth with daily news coming of wars, violence, greed, perversion and gluttony?

Are you getting eager to see justice roll out like a mighty river....the justice of Jesus Christ?


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