Monday, September 9, 2019

Missing Fathers and Broken Boys in America

Satan must be smiling as he looks at the mess he helped create in America.  He figured that if he could destroy the God-ordained family of one man united with one women raising kids, he could sit back and watch the nation implode on itself.


The subject of “The Desperate Cry of America’s Boys” is a difficult one. To point out that boys need their fathers is to shine a spotlight on divorce and single mothers; and that is, admittedly, uncomfortable. But there’s no way to address fatherlessness comfortably.

The fact is, divorce and family breakdown—which, to answer my emailer’s question, is the root of fatherlessness—is catastrophic for children. There’s more than one reason why, but an obvious one is that in the majority of cases, divorce separates children from their fathers.

This is destructive to both boys and girls, but each sex suffers differently. Girls who grow up deprived of their father are more likely to become depressed, more likely to self-harm, and more likely to be promiscuous. But they still have their mothers, with whom they clearly identify. Boys do not have a comparable identification and thus suffer more from father absence. They also tend to act out in a manner that’s harmful to others, which girls typically do not.

More often than not, children lose contact with their fathers—for two reasons. One, mothers remain the default custodial parent in the average American divorce and thus retain most of the control. Second, it is usually women who consider themselves the aggrieved party, as evidenced by the fact that wives initiate 70 percent of divorces.

The unfortunate result is that some divorced mothers use any opportunity to undermine their children’s relationship with their father or, if not that, dismiss the significance of a father’s role. In 2016, when Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt were getting divorced, Jolie actually said it never crossed her that mind her son “Mad” would need a father. That may be an extreme example; but it’s not something anyone, Hollywood star or regular person, would have thought—let alone said—twenty years ago.


Sadly, we continue to tell our little boys and girls in all the public schools of America that they are random, evolutionary accidents of the universe and their only purpose is to make the earth a "better place" by recycling and not having any kids.  On top of that there is no male or female and people are interchangeable along the masculine/feminine spectrum.  And if you aren't happy with your husband women, just swipe right and ditch him!  The kids won't miss that lazy loser anyway.  And how much of a role did the Feminist Movement have on this tragic place we have found ourselves?


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