Polyamory Continues Moving Towards Mainstream Acceptance

 Who invented monogamy anyway?  Answer:  God did.  Most men don't want it.  They want to have sex with multiple partners.  Gay men, especially, are known to have more partners than they can remember....which is why disease is most rampant in that culture.

As our society continues to move away from honoring God and fearing the Lord, we can expect to see more of a push for people to walk away from monogamy.

In today's newspaper we see how that push is being glorified and brought into mainstream practice and approval.

Bryan and Deron Demeritte and Joshua Rodriguez don’t exactly make up a stereotypical rural household.

It’s true that they hunt and fish and raise chickens, fruits and vegetables on their 10-acre farmstead in Waseca, surrounded by fertile rolling fields of soybean and corn.

But Bryan, a full-time farmer and a part-time Unitarian pastor and seminary professor, describes Deron and Joshua as his two husbands.

Think of it as Green Acres, nonmonogamy style. Or polyamory among the chickens.

Bryan, 52, is white, a former teacher who grew up Baptist in Missouri. Deron, 38, is Black and originally from the Bahamas. He works as an industrial and commercial HVAC foreman and has been legally married to Bryan for 11 years. Joshua (who plans to change his last name to Demeritte) is a 24-year-old restoration company project manager. He’s mostly Latino and grew up in Boston as the son of immigrant parents from the Dominican Republic and El Salvador.

Joshua has been in a committed relationship with Bryan for five years. He and Deron consider themselves as brother husbands.

In the language of the nonmonogamous community, they’re “nesting partners” in a polyamorous “V” relationship, with Bryan as the “hinge.” That means Bryan has a physical and romantic relationship with Deron and Joshua, but Deron and Joshua don’t have that sort of relationship with each other.

“I love Josh, but I’m not in love with Josh,” Deron said. “We’re like brothers, almost.”

The three recently moved into their five-bedroom ranch house in the small southern Minnesota town as business and relationship partners in what they’ve called Loving More Farmstead.

Their spread includes three barns, a field of corn, four small vineyards, an apple orchard, a couple of geese and 72 juvenile Heritage chickens that will earn their keep laying eggs for market. They’ll be adding a market vegetable garden and begin raising sheep for lamb meat next.

There are other f armers of color. And other gay farmers. But Bryan said he doesn’t know of any other gay, nesting, polyamorous, multiracial farming households.

So far, the Loving More trio said they haven’t had any problems fitting into their rural community.

“Were the happiest we’ve ever been,” Bryan said. “I think people in this Minnesota sense are very welcoming, but they also just leave you alone.”

“We’re all just people. We’re just trying to love,” Joshua said.

Becoming more mainstream Their lifestyle isn’t quite as unconventional as it once was regarded.

Recently, mainstream publications such as the New York Times have been writing about nonmonogamy and polyamory in ways that make it seem fashionable.

Here;  replica.startribune.com/infinity/article_popover_share.aspx?guid=a9b31d83-9090-45c1-973b-5172b37a7dd7&share=true

Yep!  The media will keep writing about polyamory to "make it seem fashionable."

And the attack on ONE MAN AND ONE WOMEN as ordained by God will only continue until the nuclear family is totally destroyed.  No kids, no husbands and wives, just people setting up house and having sex as THEY want.

Hat tip to Annie G.